If your system if fully charged and yet the gauges are in the red aka "retard" your system is not turning on. This cou ld be because the a/c relay took a shit, compressor not turning on, blockage somewhere in the system so it is turning itself of, or your a/c switch has failed.
Now check whether the compressor is coming on at all EVEN IF IT ONLY TURNS ON FOR A SECOND! If it comes on and then shuts right back off your pressure switch is shutting it off because it knows the pressures are excessive. This could be caused by a blockage, overcharge (but not enough to blow the purge) or the compressor took a shit.
If the compressor does not come on tap on the a/c relay and if it comes on you know the relay is bad. If it doesnt come on while tapping it is probably still bad. I would bet 50% of all a/c diag that come into shop are because the relay failed. Honda uses horribly cheap relays.
Replaced the relay and still not turning on!? Jump the a/c switch to manually activate it.
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