I think the grey one looks better because it looks like cleaner work (and a better paint job) and also the top of the front bumper follows through with the shap of the hood/inside of the lights. So it doesn't look as out of place.
That really sucks that it was stolen though. Keep your eyes open on local websites with classifieds and eBay. Make sure everyone you know who would possibly see it knows about what happened.
My car was recently stolen. Recovered, but they stole my blades (had them for about a month), CD player, busted some interior parts, tore up my steering column, stole one taillight, took my intake, etc.
Could be worse though. I know of a local ITR that was stolen, completely stripped, the Type R badges were cut off of the side of the car, and then it was cut into eight pieces and each piece was left two miles apart along I-5.