time to face facts

[g2teg]

so in now 23, dont feel that much older and now the harsh reality of my world is coming to crashing hault...., i now have to pay $157 every 2 weeks for the next 18 0r so yrs for a lil girl who i will never see or get to see because she lives 1600 miles away from me, plus $75 every 2 weeks for 2 party insurance the fiance is most likely going to go live with her bro in nevada leaving me with a 450 slpit share on rent on our apt, her mom is covering the other half, leaving all the bills to me seeing as how they were already in my name to begin with..... the only good thing to come out of this which is also bad is her other bro is going to take over paymnents on the BMW so its no longer my fiancial responsibility bad thing is now i will most likely get 3-4 of sleep a day if that because of the 2 full time jobs i will now have to pull just to survive awesome birthday week right?

 

[Kocain]

damn.. that sucks...
I thought child support goes by how much you make a month?

 

[Gorveatt]

so.. wait.. did you guys split up? Sucks man, good luck with everything

 

[heykosal]

I'm very sorry to hear about your hardships man. I know it sounds reallty lame but keep your head up and stay strong if you keep working hard it'll somehow get better.

I'm in a load of shit myself now I'd just rather not talk about it.

Good luck to you though bro.

 

[Cheesenip]

isnt there some law that she cant take the kid a certain distance if theres joint custody?

 

[8urcivic]

that sucks......i miss u brady.

 

[BrokenTalon27]

isnt there some law that she cant take the kid a certain distance if theres joint custody?

thats what I thought. but im sure there are loopholes.

 

[ewoo]

listen bro, i know its hard for people to listen to advice and actually heed to it during times like this, but i'll say my part. your efforts wont be in vain as long as you make the most of what you're doing. keep your chin up. also, keep in mind that the things in life that don't kill you, will only make you stronger. this will all be a learning experience and i have tons of respect for you for your situation. money is tight for many people.. and i cant imagine working 2 full time jobs considering right now i only work part time and about to get fired.

good luck man. i know you dont know me, but if you ever need to talk, lemme know.