trust

[JdmITRCinci]

Why the hell dont girls ever trust guys, me and my g/f have been dateing for almost a year its been 11 months and all of the sudden w/e one of my friends calls to talk to me or send me an im online she gets all pissy asken me whoz that blah blah blah and she knows who every one of my friends are that i talk to etc etc and she still dosnt trust me accusing me of cheating on her, so then girls leave me messages on myspace sayin retarded shit. She has been like this ever since my buddy got cheated on 5 months ago. and to me you cnt have a relation ship w/ out trust and i have never given her a reason not to trust me.

 

[CHILD]

dude, if anybody understands you....its me. I've been married for a year and 3 months, i've known my spouse for 4 years and still to this very day she accuses me of shit. Our relationship hasn't been strong because of her acting like that. No lie, this very morning she accused me of doing her wrongand talkin' to someone behind her back. We've been back and forth over getting a divorce, so its really bad. Its not really a girl thing, its an insecurity thing, and there aint nothing we can do about it.

 

[B18TEG]

yea man, i cant say they are all the same but it seems like it. ive been married two years and new my wife three years before that, and we argue all the time over stupid stuff. and it gets to the point where you wanna blow up on her. i cant ever have a week or for that matter a day when everything is great at home, something i do always attracts an argument whether its i wanna be online or talk to friend of mine. i had the same problem with girl - friends, not that your interested in them but that they just are friends, and "it is written in your vows as a man with another woman to never speak to another female" as my wife would put it; it is just an insecurity issue with your girl because my wife is the same way so either dip while you can or really trully talk to her and tell her how you feel. cuz im too late, and i feel you child, i have a little daughter too, and it just makes it more difficult to escape without any scars.

 

[DailyDB8]

somtimes people let their fears consume them...

 

[B18TEG]

somtimes people let their fears consume them...

yea

 

[JdmITRCinci]

well she even says im the best boyfriend she has ever had, i've treated her better than she has ever thought possible, and she even dosnt understand why she dose but i think i do, and it because of her ex's they took advantage of her and abused her.

 

[B18TEG]

well she even says im the best boyfriend she has ever had, i've treated her better than she has ever thought possible, and she even dosnt understand why she dose but i think i do, and it because of her ex's they took advantage of her and abused her.

ive gotten that line a bunch of times and it makes me feel like ok then cant you figure it out why you gotta make me feel like shit and piss me off. i know your doing your best and itll seem like the nice guys finish last

 

[g2teg]

i can feel for you man, i know what you mean by insecure, my ex sarah not only went threw my phone, but i have spent countless hours and money trying to help her out and come to find out that she moves in with some guy and tells you over the phone that they are together, thats just fucked up, or having your fiance 3 1/2 yrs go behind your back and sleep with your best friend twice...but back to the point as i have come to find out that most girls, feel that once they have been hurt, thats all they think will continue to happen, thats just how i see, my new girl , we havent fought, not even once, but time will come where will, all you got to do is sit down with her and ask do you trust me? do you love? assuming she is going to say yes, tell her you love her and that you would never do anything to hurt her, after that take her out and go have a good time......

 

[JdmITRCinci]

ive gotten that line a bunch of times and it makes me feel like ok then cant you figure it out why you gotta make me feel like shit and piss me off. i know your doing your best and itll seem like the nice guys finish last

well what is the best part about it is i know i am cuz i have met every single one of hehr exs and they are all dickless assholes

 

[B18TEG]

now that sucks big time, but whatever, just think of yourself as better, ive never had the pleasure to meet any of my girls ex's but from what ive heard i wouldnt want to either. so w/e

 

[B18TEG]

G2TEG, my wife goes through my phone, my wallet, everything so its like the airport/prison here for me, but w/e i have nothing to hide but im the type of person that likes his personal space so it bothers me that she does it even when i ask her not to. and im sorr for her leaving you like that but hey its for the better, you dont want to live your life like that, and congrats on the new girl i wish you the best of luck.

 

[acurals209]

i guess we have all have this happen to us i mean ive been with my wife for 7 years now and married for 2 1/2 and she still gives me the !whos that bitch! or why she calling u , or my favorite one of all u like her dont u. its gotten better now but she still gives me a hard time even tough i have been a good boyfriend and a faitfull husban she gets jelouse of the smallest shit. well know i have a 1 week old son that we just had so shes focusing on him hopefully this insecurity will stop cuz i have no other way of proving to her that im here to stay.

 

[B18TEG]

congrats on your baby boy, shell concentrate on him for a while but your not off the hook, she will beg for more attention from you and expect more. trust me when i say this. ive heard every single line there is about not being able to be trusted and ive never cheated or lied to my wife before. i omit some things but its for the better, so that she wont get even more agitated about something.

 

[acurals209]

congrats on your baby boy, shell concentrate on him for a while but your not off the hook, she will beg for more attention from you and expect more. trust me when i say this. ive heard every single line there is about not being able to be trusted and ive never cheated or lied to my wife before. i omit some things but its for the better, so that she wont get even more agitated about something.

THANKS BRO IM A VERY HAPPY DAD I NEVER TOUGHT ID BE A DAD BUT ITS A GREAT FEELING TO SEE INTO MY LITTLE BOY'S EYES AND KNOW THAT OUR RELATIONSHIP WILL GROW WITH THE LOVE WE BOTH SHARE FOR HIM. I KNOW IM HAVING IT EASY CUZ HES A NEWBORN AND I KNOW IM NOT OFF THE HOOK JUST YEATH BUT IT FEELS GOOD NOT TO GET JUMPED EVERYTIME MY CELL RINGS LOL

 

[B18TEG]

i feel ya, i love my daughter and wife to death and that will never change, regardless of how much we argue.