Thanks for all the replies.
Honestly if both sets, 17x7.5 or 17x8.5 were sitting in front of me to make a choice, I would choose the 17x7.5. I just think it would be to much to deal with with the 17x8.5 and its not what I really wanted in the first place. So I know it would be a constant I should of, I should of, I should of if I went with the 17x8.5
If you dont know me then you should know that 17s are the smallest I can fit with my big brake kit. But even then I dont know if I would go 16s. Some times it looks amazing if done right with the right brands and stance but it still looks like its just a bit to small still.
The cars build plan has always been show and go. I like to drive my car and not trailer it.
I have Tein Flex adjustable coilovers and the EDFC, so yes, I can adjust my suspension if need be. I don't have a camber kit but I plan on getting one before I get wheels so I can really adjust it all.