I had more trouble wiring up my fogs than anything on my teg, its a 2000... on the fogs, mine had a switch to toggle on and off, there the pwJDM fogs anyways I ran the switch to my fogs beside my e-brake, there 4lil pieces in that area if you take a flat head svrew driver they pop out i located my switch there, after i ran my wire along the center consold to the fuse panel under the dash inside the care (this is were the black wire with the brown clip is located) and found a slot like you got listed above and found the slot were it get power wen the cars on and wen the power wen the cars not on, best way i can explain that, you will need a volts meter 2 determine which slot ill check mine tom 4 ya, after i hooked that up i rand the other wire through my firewall were the clutch plate is located, drilled a whole in it and ran the wire leading to your relay out to the engine bay, mounted the relay near the front left shock tower and grounded the wire after doing all that mess i installed the fogs and hooked the fog light harness to the brown plug wire believe it was yellow on mine you should have 2 brown plugs one that goes in the car and 2 out in the engine bay for you fog to your relay connect these and they should come on i probably confused you more than helped lol sry i hope this helps if it dont i could get pictures of my installation, my problem was a bad relay, i went to advanced and got one and they came on so the relay could be bad for the fogs and another thing on mine the wire leading to the fuse box inside the car with the brown plug wasnt in all the way make sure its getting good connection!
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